Make sure your children feel free to love both parents without guilt. The link above is a helpful article regarding children and divorce
When couples get married, they generally do so with the intention that the marriage will be for a lifetime, but the reality is divorce is a common experience. Year after year, many marriages end because of various reasons. When marriages crumble, it is important for couples to remember they still have a responsibility to themselves and any children the marriage produced.
"The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change."